Not knowing what you want to do with your life.

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Hey!!! Today I want to talk about something that I have personally been struggling with. Honestly. I have no idea how people know what day want to do with their lives. I have never had a job that I wanted. I never knew what I wanted I general for my future. I feel genuinely so lost. So, I want to talk about that a little today.

Photo/Picture by Santi Xander

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I remember when I was in middle school. Most of my friends already knew what high school they wanted to go to. I Norway I have quite a few choices when it comes to high schools. I don’t know how it works in other countries. But I Norway we can ether go to a trade school where you can get a full education as for example an electrician, carpenter, hairdresser, media or even in hotel management. There are many more to. Or you can go to a “normal” high school. Where you have for example math and science, phycology, economics and politics. There is a lot mor her to. I Norway you start high school at age 16 and end it age 19. If you go to a trade school, you are done at age 20.

In middle school my most of my friends know where they wanted to go. And what they wanted to do. And many of them have already finished and succedent in that. I on the other hand still do not know what I want to do with my life. I recently discovered that I have an interest in radiography. But I don’t know if that is what I want to do for the rest of my life. I don’t really have a dream job right now. But I am feeling the pressure to get a “real” job. An adult job. I know that I want a family. I want a husband I want kids. But I genuinely don’t know how to get there.

I am still in my early to mid-20s. So, I know that I still have some time. But I feel that I must at least get some sort of higher education soon. Just to have a back up plan. A stabile a secure back up plan that I can fall back on if things don’t work out. I need that security if am going to trye (and fail a few times) to find and achieve my dream. I know I can do it and so can you!!! I mean if other could do it why not us. Others doing it is proffer that it is possible.

So, lets do this together. Let’s Plan, Execute, Succeed!!!

Thank you sooo much for taking the time to read this post. I really appreciate it, and I appreciate you!! Remember to love yourself!!! You are beautiful, unique, and deserving of love just the way you are

Love you bayyy <3